WEDDING MUSIC ~ WEDDING ETIQUETTE
 

This article is written by a professional wedding music consultant.

Wedding music during the ceremony should be playing as guests arrive. Whether you are in a church with an organist or at a resort or San Diego beach side location with a string trio or a Disc Jockey, music should welcome your guests as they arrive.

There is your first decision - what style and flavor of music do you want for your ceremony?

  • Wedding ceremonies will often dictate the course of music and styling for this decision. Usually, an organist or a string or brass ensemble with or without the combination of a choir will be chosen. Your faith may weigh in on music choices. Your ethnicity and family background may also have a bearing on music chosen.
  • Many ensembles can provide a variety of styles from their musical repertoire. Give them notice on music you wish to hear or if you want them to learn a song. Don't wait until the last minute and expect a musician or band to learn something the week of the wedding, especially if they can't get the sheet music for it.
  • Auditioning music. Ask for a demo CD or DVD or see if you can see them perform in a public venue. It is never appropriate to crash a private event to audition your DJ or band. You certainly wouldn't want strangers visiting your private event to view vendors.
  • Disc Jockeys can provide a variety of old and modern contemporary selections to suit your tastes. They can mix and match songs and styles and play the music the way you are used to hearing it - as the original recording.
  • What music is appropriate for a wedding ceremony? Traditional ceremonies use classical music. Many modern brides eschew the traditional organ version of the Bridal Chorus and use either solo or string versions or other classical pieces. Brides also get creative and use contemporary love songs, jazz pieces and even music from movie soundtracks.
  • Unity candles, sand ceremonies and rose exchanges are just a few additional traditions that may be added to a ceremony. These, too, often have musical accompaniment. Ask your musician or DJ for something light and instrumental while they take place.

There are many more questions you may have surrounding searching for and choosing ceremony music. Take advantage of the professionals out there for their expertise in guiding you to make the right choices. You may style it any way you'd like, but, using professionals, you'll style it right!

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Disc Jockeys - Selecting a Disc Jockey (DJ) and Master of Ceremonies (MC).
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Quotes & Toasts
"The ritual of marriage is not simply a social event; it is a crossing of threads in the fabric of fate. Many strands bring the couple and their families together and spin their lives into a fabric that is woven on their children." - Portuguese-Jewish Wedding Ceremony
"Marriage is the alliance of two people, one of whom never remembers birthdays and the other who never forgets them." - Ogden Nash
"To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven." - Karen Sunde
"I love being married. It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life." - Rita Rudner
"To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides." - David Viscott
 
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